How much do you truly analyse success metrics expressed by your customers?
What if this is what you are hearing?
CEO: "We need 20% efficiency improvement across operations."
IT: "We need seamless integration with existing systems."
End User: "We need something that doesn't crash every Tuesday. Please!"
In reality none of these definitions of success will actually drive the outcomes they need.
Customers are terrible at defining their own success during onboarding!
This is where your genius comes into play!
Guide them toward success definitions that actually drive business value and set up natural expansion pathways.
So, do you want to be just a product delivery service, or a strategic partner?
(Psst, the answer is the latter!) ↓

🧪 The Project: Success Alignment Skills
This will guide customers toward success definitions that not only drive retention, expansion, and referrals, but also allow them to excel with your product.
Step 1: Understand the stakeholder web
If you only engage with a primary contact, you miss the broader ecosystem of decision-makers.
Create a simple stakeholder map for every new customer and identify what success looks like to each.
Executive Level: What business outcomes justify the investment?
Operational Level: What daily improvements would make their jobs easier?
End User Level: What would make them actually want to use the system
Financial Level: What metrics prove ROI to the board?
Don't assume your main contact understands everyone's priorities.
They rarely do.
Step 2: Ask "What If"
If you ask "What does success look like?" you will get a generic answer that may be hard to decipher and truly deliver upon.
Try asking “What if” questions, like this:
"What if this onboarding and solution exceeded your expectations? What would that look like six months from now?"
"What if your team became the internal success story that other departments want to replicate? How would that impact your progression?"
This shifts conversations from problem-solving to opportunity creation.
It puts the customer in a forward thinking mindset, rather than thinking about their existing problems.
Step 3: Success metric hierarchies
Not all success metrics are created equal.
Help your customer understand that some success metrics have more weight attached to them than others.
This is incredibly useful to manage their focus.
Sometimes, customers can get fixated on a metric that won’t truly move the needle.
Utilise this concept:
Foundation Metrics: Basic functionality that prevents churn
Growth Metrics: Improvements that justify expanded usage
Strategic Metrics: Outcomes that drive referrals and case studies
Show customers how their current success definitions may focus on only one of these areas.
Explain that the trifecta will deliver success across all stakeholders.
Step 4: Align stakeholders
Schedule time with all key stakeholders to align on success definitions before onboarding begins.
This is a luxury not all of us have access to, but if you do, make use of it.
Try an agenda like this:
Each stakeholder shares their version of success
Identify overlaps & conflicts in their definitions
Collaborate to create unified success metrics that serve everyone
Establish how success will be measured & communicated
This prevents the derailing of an onboarding and potential long term customer because stakeholders weren’t aligned.
This is a skillset to work on.
You will need to be able to think critically, recognise and analyse tone, read between the lines, and dig deeper from the surface level answers given.
And all of it in real time.
I have written steps for all of these in previous newsletters, have a browse here.
🤓 The Analysis
Success metrics set during onboarding create a direct line to every revenue stream in your business.
When customers define success too narrowly, they limit their own potential while constraining your expansion opportunities.
What to expect by making these changes:
Clearer expansion pathways
Higher referral rates
More effective handovers between teams
Stronger customer relationships & understanding

